auxilium

An Alliance of Compassionate Leaders
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We believe in 
the power of leadership
over leadership of power

Auxilium
is a private membership community
focused
on connecting and supporting 
compassionate leaders.
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Took on the responsibility 
of becoming the authentic & empathic leader he has always aspired to be.
Director of UX at Affinity Solutions
Took on the responsibility 
of shifting jobs while pregnant.
Sr. Director of Online Security at CoStar Group
Took on the responsibility
of changing a deeply ingrained habit.
Scientific Business Development Manager at Diagnostica Stago

A by invitation-only membership of
the most compassionate leaders from around the world

There are leaders
who care more
than others.

Leaders
who care about the environment,
not just convenience.

Leaders
who care about society,
not just their family.

Leaders
who care about well-being and mental health,
not just achievements.

Our mission
is to design
a home away from home
for these extraordinary
individuals.

A place,
where they can gain
the wisdom and growth they need
to realize their full potential.
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Belong

in a community of professionals on 
a similar journey of leadership.

Connect

with people who understand and appreciate the challenges you face.

Develop

by receiving the right kind of support you need at the moment you need it.

Contribute

to the development of others around the world with diverse backgrounds.

Auxilium
guides important life decisions
to bring clarity and confidence
in situations
of risk and uncertainty.

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“I don’t think I would have had the courage to quit while pregnant without the guidance of this community.”
Sr. Director of Online Security at CoStar Group
“[With the guidance of the community I now see] that I have tended to prioritize work or personal interests over my family, especially my wife. Pay was good, career progression was also good, but something was lacking. To fulfill my dreams, I [now] need to build a solid family platform.”
Anonymous Male
Sr. Director at a Global Management Consulting Firm
“[With the guidance of the community] I’ve decided not to take most of the jobs that are being presented and am seriously working on a plan to work for myself. For the first time in a long time, I have clarity in my priorities so that I can be intentional with every decision I make.”
Anonymous Female
Director of Engineering at a Series E Tech Startup

Auxilium
guides you on your journey
of protecting your values
amidst external pressure.

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“[With the guidance of the community] I now feel more open to how things might unfold instead of feeling pressured to conform.”
Director of UX at Affinity Solutions
“[With the guidance of the community] I now see that I don’t have to compromise on my own goals and who I truly am in order to more productively work within the corporate world.”
Scientific Business Development Manager at Diagnostica Stago
“[With the guidance of the community] I’ve come to realize that I was previously presenting at work the way I thought people wanted me to show up. I thought I wanted to be the most successful woman in tech better at all the typically male activities. Now I know that I don’t nor do I have to. I can be who I am without proving myself to the people (especially men) at work.”
Anonymous Female
Director of Engineering at a Series E Tech Startup

Auxilium
keeps you accountable
for moving away from being the person
you do not want to be
and guides you 
to (re)discover the person
you can be.

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“[With the support of the community] I’m becoming the authentic and empathic leader I’ve always aspired to be.”
Director of UX at Affinity Solutions
“[With the support of the community] I’m developing better health, better relationships with others, and better mental clarity.”
Scientific Business Development Manager at Diagnostica Stago
“[With the support of the community] I’m becoming less concerned about money. More open to change, especially in my career.”
Sr. Director of Online Security at CoStar Group

To get started

1. Apply for an invitation.
2. Interview with a past or current member.
3. Receive Invitation.
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The Chinese character
for “human”
is two strokes
supporting each other.
To be human
Is to be
in mutual support.
But it can be difficult
to stay human
in a system that demands you to be
who you’re not
or who they think
you should be
instead of providing support
for you to be 
who you are
or become
who you can become.
If a system doesn’t exist
may we take responsibility
for creating it.
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We envision a world
where each
and every one of us
⏤from the moment we’re born
until the day we die⏤
can feel certain
there’s at least one person
we can reach out to
at any given moment
who can and will support us
in a way
that actually makes us feel
supported.
Auxilium
is our first step
toward such a world.
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